Truth behind being paired.

Well it indeed has been a while I posted anything online on my personal issues, and truth is I've had quite a bit of balls to juggle, tea cups to balance on my tray or what ever analogy is appropriate. I've come to share a new meaning and a realization I've had over reaching 25 (pseudo quarter life crisis) and well I've come to share this with you.

Firstly, being in a relationship is harder than the whole mystery of pick up and all that initiation phase. There comes a point in time in a relationship where each of you are just dragging along and trying to pull through together. The only thing keeping you from breaking apart is the love, memories and all that you've done for each other. But its important enough for you then its what matters at the end of the day.

Yes, I know you post-modern lovers are sitting there thinking why must one "pull through" a relationship when we have that option of moving on if the spark is gone. Well, I'm an old fashioned thinker that likes to follow the intrinsic values. Relationship and love, is not among those things that can be disposed like a bulb, or a job or anything else. One needs to rebuild the spark and continue to throw in effort for the partner. It's the same as penguins, that find a mate and if lost they lose interest in finding anyone else. Thus, similarly once you find that love and decide him/her to be the one its important to continue to stick to that decision and not hump around letting the instincts control you.

I am not here to share that with you essentially, I've come to realize the power of growing up and the world we live in. Being single is like a free soul, yet however being in a relationship brings in privilege as well as responsibility. We all know the rule of Survival of the Fittest, thus when in a relationship it makes sense that your mate could be earned away from you by a more capable entity. This is assuming the case that the pairs aren't married yet.

An old fashioned man hides his emotions in a box within him and faces the world as black and white. It's important to cage that child within us men so were not distracted during work by play. It's also important for us men to discipline ourselves into remaining focused even in scenarios we know our wife maybe home screwing another man. We chose this position, we have to stay firm and continue to work for it is to be done. It is also for us traditional men to understand our place as bread earners and continue to full fill our duty as it is work, and work is to be done.

There's more to what meets the eye, and that is to be uncovered by ones perception and theory and philosophy. What we do is what is to be done, and essentially the part of growing up into adults with responsibilities.Thus to all old fashioned men out there, here's a bit of Latin for you. Virile Agitur! (do manly thing)

There's more coming this way soon, but for now I just vented out some of my emotions and leave you all with a thought to ponder on.

If life is not black and white, and black and white are shades of grey. Thus,  life is grey?

TaQur.